You can beat what is thrown at you because you are a realist - life is not cookie cutter sweet, it can be tough, it can be tiring, it definatly is ever changing but with the right attitude it will never be boring. There is a saying you only get what you can handle and it seems from reading your posts ( which I love btw ) you are handling it very well .... Lol ok so the gin might have helped you along the way a bit 😂