Adapt to change
There was a point in my life where I didn't have a home, I didn't have anything really. Since I was a little girl I had to be sent to different orphanages, always had to move around. Sometimes to places that scared me. Places I did not even want to go to, and had no choice but to be there. That, is when I learned to adapt to anything. I learned to accept anything that came my way, the good, and the bad. Because of that, now it is not hard for me to move to other countries. It's not hard being alone. Change, does not scare me.
"Things" don't matter, people do
When you've lived life without a family, you realize that "stuff" doesn't matter. The stuff that everyone tries to collect in this world. You learn to let go of it all if necessary, or if you have to move to another country. As long as you have people that love you unconditionally, that is all you need.
Don't judge
Something hard not to do, as we are humans and we judge by instinct. Because of my past though, I understand more than ever that it is better to stay silent than to judge.
Thanks for reading :)
Nos vemos in the next post!
At least you have a good home and family to support you now. Though it probably sucked you've learned a lot. Big hug ;)
I'll take that hug! Yes I have a huge, crazy, family and i'm well taken care of now you are right :)
A hug for you too. Hehe
Thanks for the hug ;)
I was lucky to not spend to much of my life in care as I was adopted at around 6 years old to a very loving family. I have always though learned to depend on myself though and shut people out at every hurdle possible. That is until my little girl was born. Now all I can do is ensure I live my life as best as possible to give her a proper family. Thanks for sharing your post with us.
I appreciate you reading my post! Even at 6, you still remember things and you're still changed. You sound blessed as well to have been given a family, and sounds like you have a family of your own with your baby girl. Thanks so much for commenting :)
Thank you for sharing and for reminding us of these things. Everything you stated above are true. I admire your courage during your childhood days and how you managed to come out strong from those. "Change does not scare me". I hope all of us can learn to be like you.
This comment is supper sweet, it made me happy :) I appreciate your reading my post, thank you!
Thanks for sharing your thoughts. Deep.
Thank you so much for reading :)
What most of use people do is we take what we have for granted and never truly appreciate them. There are poeple who would die to be in your position.
Nice Thought.
Thanks!
Thanks for motivated post.
I'm so happy it was motivational for you :)
I was basically a orphanage living with families from 5months to 10yr old, I can def relate to you, however it’s s blessing and a curse, I like being alone, and will run at any times.., the blessings is not scared to be alone
What you said is as true as it can be. It's a curse too. I used to run a lot..
I hope you have people worth staying for now @nickall :)
Good post... Motivational too.
Thanks for sharing :)
Thank you so much for reading. Much appreciated :)
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Thanks for sharing a part of your life, we truly believe that your experiences create you as a person. It's nice to find people who see the world in the same perspective.
It means so much that you stopped by :) Thank you
Super beautiful story, I'm sure you've become so much stronger and live everyday with hope, love and understanding with the ones you know! Very nice post, greetings!
Your words are so sweet!! Thanks so much for reading and commenting :)
You've learned some of the best secrets to a happy life. I'm glad you were able to take a bad situation and turn it into something positive. These lessons will serve you well, and you can teach them to your own children. The world would be a far better place if everyone knew these things.
Thank you for your kind words my friend :)
You are so right about staying silent. It may be trite, but the old adage, "Silence is golden," is true. We can learn more from not saying anything than saying too much.
Thank you for so vulnerably sharing your life experience @fullofhope. It was inspiring to read and your words about not judging are very wise.
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Aww. Thank you for the really kind comment :)
You have such beautiful life perspective, my darling! ❤️❤️❤️
Aw thank you for saying that! <3
Wow, I agree with all of that! Things don't matter, people do. I've learned that for a different reason than you, but I've learned it just the same.
Is it ok for me to ask a question about orphanages? I'll just ask...you don't have to answer...but why do they move you around a lot?
And, are the orphanges like the ones you see on tv in India, or the ones you go to that just look all sad? I always wanted to design an orphanage and decorate it to make it super kid friendly. I don't know if it would matter to the kids...but imagine if they got to have cool bedrooms and stuff. Like, a bed shaped like a car for the boys or something.
Were you ever in foster homes as well? Gracias por compartir este parte de tu vida tan privada!
I don't mind answering these! I'm happy you ask actually :)
So to answer your first question.. I was in so many ophanages, like 12, because I ran away from lots of them because I was scared. Some orphanages don't want you also. It honestly is some like in movies.. very sad, but movies don't show how they actually treat the children on a daily basis. It is horrible.
I was in one foster home, but had to go back to orphanage.
I looooove your idea!!! 😍 To see an orphanage like that be built, would be so amazing and welcoming. You have a big heart to want something like that.
Thanks so much for answering my super nosy personal questions! Apparently I need to build the orphanages too... Because there shouldn't be any in existence that make a kid feel scared.
I don't understand that!! Heartless people with no souls just shouldn't be allowed to work around kids... Especially orphans. Orphans need extra love, not less of it!! That's so sad to here. I'm glad you like that idea, though! I need to turn it into reality then.
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