all this can rightfully be called a "template" of the life path of the last generation. Parents want a better life for their children and the only option that they know is to complain to you about getting a good education and finding a good job. They were taught like this and that's why they teach us this.
In our time, everything has changed a lot. Capable people can prove otherwise. They can break this pattern and show everyone else that there is another road.
In the digital age, you can learn without even leaving home, you can order food even without leaving home and most importantly you can make money without ever leaving home. For this, you need a few things - a smart head :), a computer, an Internet and the main thing is a great desire.
The system will be destroyed by itself, new generations will strive for the best. We can see it now.
Thank you