Well then stop bitching, growing up with a bitching/nagging mom also has effects on children,
find a way to make them do some chores around the house or something.
Frankly if I was one of your children and read what you wrote, I would think that you hate being a mom, and that you are just there because you dont see an acceptable exit.
I must say that your non-husband was VERY smart in not marrying you,
that way when you leave with your feminist shit to go bother someone else,
he wont get divorced raped. Good for him.