Ever since I was little, I knew I wanted to succeed no matter how hard it was going to be because failure was deleted from my mind as my first conscious act when I acquired full consciousness.
Even though I wanted to succeed by my hands, I knew it was not a go alone journey. A single individual might achieve success on his own in twelve years, but with the right person, he'll achieve it in four to six years.
Failure comes in many forms and has several definitions and it is up to each individual to determine what failure means to the individual. united we stand and divided we fall is a philosophy I have always kept in mind.
Of course, there are time when we have to go it alone for several reasons like when your other half fits into the category of a bad head or when going alone is the only option. In such cases, you just have to go it alone.
Even if we look at it from the Biblical angle, when God created man, He discovered that it was not good that man should be alone, so He made a help mate for man.
Even God knows that we need help, He didn't mandate excess wealth, He encouraged partnership to one's goals because He realized that two good heads were better than one.
Even in basic business life, we discover that business formed on partnerships most times have a higher chance of doing well or going farther than businesses formed on sole proprietorship and that is because when expertise are combined, we have a higher chance of getting success.
Now this is about love in relation to success. One thing we need to know is that a man who is fueled by emotions to succeed is like a car on nitro boost and the greatest emotion is love.
Sure, hate is also strong, but the thing is hate eats you up and eats your success too so you are left with nothing at the end of the day.
Hate also makes your drive to succeed higher, but it makes the person murderous. Why opt for hate when love is better? Why choose something that can destroy you when something that can reform you is available?
Being a lone wolf is a personal preference, but then being alone means in pursuit of money, you end up doing the job of two people.
No where is it written that you become a man when you do it all singly, neither is it written too that you become an independent woman when you can do everything alone.
You become a successful person (either man or woman) when you have the mindset to play well with others while exerting an air of being able to do it alone if and only if it becomes an absolute necessity.
My honest advice is for you to find the right person, the other good head and get to work on building your dreams together. If you already have your dreams on the way, be open to getting your other good head and work well with them to ensure a brighter future for everyone involved.
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It really hurts when I still have the fact that am still single. I wish I had someone who could be my imperfect other half , the search and pursuit is still on.
Thanks for the words
all the best to you boss. Winks
Why choose something that can destroy you when something that can reform you is available yes is better to choose love,thanks for sharing @ehiboss the boss.
That's right @adigsbeauty
Yes success is an intrinsic desire that you find some people forget they need to love someone. I think I was like this a little bit and I must admit am still on that ideology but I guess looking at my relationship with my gf now, I think I have stepped a notch. Thanks for sharing ur views boss
@ehiboss thanks for sharing this amazing and inspiring post.
Right on the head...... You've said it all, nobody is an island, we all need a team, a strong one, even Jesus didn't do it alone.
Thanks for the reminder, more ink to yout pen.
Yes love is the greatest emotion and it can push you to do many things including succeed, I hope all those with the mentality that they must succeed and be at the top before they can love will see this. Thanks boss
Good heads are difficult to find these days; a lot of people are more interested in packaging and end up getting lost. I hope I meet someone special someday sha
There is a popular saying that goes thus. "if u want to go fast go alone, but if you want to go far, go with someone "
This statement perfectly shows the power of teamwork.
Thanks for sharing
Steemit is particularly the way you describe. I think you don't become a "full" Steemian until once you become a part of the community. This is one of the most common mistakes I see in new people. They think they can have a full Steem journey without finding company.
how do u become a part of the community or how do u join a community on here?
Nice write up. But then getting married does not always equate to success.
You made reference to the Bible citing Adam and Eve. Adam was already successful before Eve came around. He felt alone because he was the only one of his kind exisiting then before Eve was created. Yes, two heads is good but not always better than one.
You really touch a very good point, but some people decide to go alone because they were let's down by those they thought had their back... But the truth is a tree cannot make a forest and that truth I will not forget....
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You are right about finding the right person. but nowadays, right partners are difficult to find, people that have found theirs are lucky, i don't think that 95% of the world's population have that luxury, that's why the rate of failed marriage is high.
hahahah I really love this post...its soso true I love this post
You always need your loved ones close to you when you are in the pursuit of making money... they serve as a humanity check and also serve to keep you away from falling into complete greed.
Yes, two good heads are better than one, the fear in some of us that are single individuals is how to locate the RIGHT person to associate with. When some people are lucky to have the best and the RIGHT people by their side others don't. And at times as a result of a nasty experience in the past, some people might give up. Well done for d wonderful post @ehiboss. To every that has found the RIGHT partner, I'm happy for you and to those that are yet to, PLEASE DON'T GIVE UP!!!
I love love, i love being in love, i don't care what it does to me. Happy Valentine's day
true to its form and as the saying goes, no man is an island.
Yea @ehiboss I can relate to this.... It is in fact a truism... Make room for love Guy! 👍👍
So true, our legs are two, our eyes are two etc. Imagine having one of each pair...indeed two is better than one
nice and educative...cheers mate
I hope to find it soon sir.. and I've always gat this in mind "united we stand and divided we fall " .. thanks for this great post .
You have really done justice to this suject of dicuss, God has a reason for creating a woman by the side of a man. You are blessed.
Hmmm love is a beautiful thing, work should not hinder.
What's the essence of struggling and fighting for money if you want to send it all alone?
Money will buy beautiful house but it can never buy a beautiful home.
Money can buy a lot of things but there are some things only love can afford.
Thanks for sharing this post...
@Ehiboss.... I find this intriguing..... People say they are not in a relationship cos they wanna focus on getting money and o do not see the sense in that at all. Love shouldn't serve as a distribution should be something like a partnership like you said... A partnership to move two people forward.
Then comes the school ish.... Don't have time for love now cos you are in school... We are now in a world where everyone feels falling in love will tamper with their goals.
I feel falling in love and chasing out goals together is better... Two heads ar better than one
I believe, two heads are better than one but two heads in love can achieve the unachieveable,can move mountains and dry the Atlantic Ocean.....
There is an adage that says if you want to walk fast,walk alone...but if you want to go far, walk with somebody
Great men that walked this planet knew this secret explained by @ehiboss and applied it earlier in their lives, most of the world's greatest inventors and leaders had their back covered by a woman they so much loved,this love fueled their zeal and exponented the result of their hard work, thus engraving their names on the sand of time.
I just read an article this morning about Michelle Obama, believe me, Obama is a household name today because of that woman....
Remember, he that finds a wife, findeth a good thing and obtain a favour from the LORD
Notwithstanding, the above antidote for success can be a lethal poison.......
My advise: CHOOSE CAREFULLY WHO YOU WOULD WANT TO WALK WITH, ANY MISTAKE MADE IN THIS PROCESS CAN MAR YOUR DESTINY
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@ehiboss, thanks for this tremendous advice, it's worth more than a million dollar
You spoke of wisdom... Well rounded kind of vision that focuses on the believes that we need each other towards this journey of life. Thank you Boss... The Pace Setter! More power to your elbow and God speed too!