Good points all. But it seems to me you're still dealing with it at the conceptual level. And if you want to get past dualism, it's about the "realizing how your mind works" level. So, maybe this will be interesting to you. Maybe not. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01FT23ER4/ref=oh_aui_search_detailpage?ie=UTF8&psc=1
mmmm... partially. I suppose a point weaved in there that wasn't spelled out directly is the concept of moving beyond the conceptual level - through that abandonment of dualistic thinking. opening up into the full-spectrum, it's not so much conceptual as perceptive anymore.
got a number of books on-the-go already, but added this one to my Wish List. thanks for the recommendation. :-)