Awesome story.. Yeah she may not act all that much like she loves you now.. But with time she will show you the appreciation she has hidden from you. and when she needs a rock to save her from other rocks.. your the rock..

Im guessing in 4 or 5 years, your relationships will be completely different. She will learn to show you her appreciation. She will enjoy you for the things your wife cannot do, the things the monkey needs to do haha! But good post, looks like a fun adventure yo!