I have goals I tell to all my friends and goals I keep in secret (to make it interesting and mysterious). As Mr. Spock once said: Do what feels right.
Remember most people on the internet are just as lost as we can be, we have to do what makes us feel good about ourselves.
Want to get support or pressure? tell everyone, want to add some spicy mystery in your life? tell no one. There's no right way just the way that works for you.