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RE: NEW YEAR, NEW RESOLUTIONS. DO THEY WORK?

in #life6 years ago

I would like to thank you @bashadow for your comment. Appreciate it a lot.

And I'm sorry for such a late reply. Just noticed that I've missed your comment somehow.

ps.
I was also wondering how do you handle stress and frustration once you realize that you cannot reach your goals and targets?

Yours
Piotr

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If you do not set unrealistic goals and targets, they can almost always be achieved. No stress that way, but if your goal or target is not reached, and it was a reasonable goal, then you look at why, what caused the failure, was it internal or external or something you had no control over. Not reaching a goal or a target should not be a stressful thing, it should be a learning thing. I do not understand why people stress over not reaching a goal or target, if a person is stressing out over not reaching a goal perhaps it is because they can not look objectively anymore as to why they set the goal in the first place.

So I do not stress over missing a goal or a target, just how I am I guess.

Thank you for your kind comment @bashadow and for being so responsive.

I really appreciate it a lot.
Yours, Piotr