This is a bit of a sticky wicket...
The extreme of this syndrome is never allowing visitors, or spending days of preparation in advance of visitors... Exhausting and frustrating.
My spouse and I disagree about this, which generally means that I do it her way and we don't have visitors, unless their visit is announced a month in advance and is a family obligation.
Well, I guess that's what love is for, right? Accommodating our spouses' differences? :D
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Both my husband and I are the same. We hate people just dropping by. We enjoy being antisocial together.
I guess in this case, that's a very good thing! ;)