I think you picked up what I was putting down, in a cool and unique way might I add :)
I just want you to question what you're aware of. Is there you, and other? Where does the self begin and end?
I don't have the answers to these questions, but I encourage you to make up your own answers and test them with your reality.

You are correct, you own your identity if you want to, although some people like to be controlled o.o