Hello Steemians, how are you?
In this post I will write about an experience that I have lived along my journey and I have been able to perceive and training many people so that they always keep the focus but showing that they can not only dream, they must understand that there are steps to be followed and for more which seems unusual to believe, a large majority of them get lost with it.
Most of us have dreams that are goals to achieve on our journey.
If this post does not make much sense to you I suggest you read many of my posts because I wrote them all with the intention of interconnecting the points to each post you read. There have been a few exceptions but the vast majority of them will make you many thoughts that can help you find answers that are already inside your minds and hearts.
To coach a person you need to listen to everything about them, their goals, their desires, to understand their finances, how they organize time during the days among many things that we need to know from who asked me to try along with it to unravel what hinders growth from them.
Of course, there is not only one factor that hinders our growth, there are many factors.
But in this post I would like to write about FOCUS.
The Focus can be divided into several parts but I would like to focus on just one at that time.
In trying to achieve their goals people forget that there are pieces to be put step by step so that they get what they want.
As you already know and I have written many times about it here: "Everything that comes easy goes easy"
I will use an analogy to make it very simple for you to understand what I mean:
Imagine you are on the edge of a cliff and on the other side you can see a beautiful mountain.
This mountain would be the place where all your goals and dreams are.
Most of the people I mentioned at the beginning of the post are looking at the mountain for days, months and even years of their lives. What does that mean? They just dream and are trying to jump to reach the other side, but that is impossible and you will not reach the mountain that way.
But people's dreams are often the biggest villain of themselves because the dream is also capable of immobilizing people.
Every time I was with one of these people I directed them to focus to reach the mountain.
I always told these people the following:
1 - Do you see the mountain?
Yes
2 - Do you realize that you spend a lot of time just looking at the mountain?
Yes
3 - What do you do every day to reach there?
I do not know….
4 - There is a great distance up there and if you just look at the mountain will not reach the other side.
I say clearly that their problem is in the focus of daily tasks that they have to do to reach there.
I say: For you to reach another side there is only one way.
You need to build the bridge and this bridge is made of wood and ropes.
Every day from now you will have to put a piece of wood and fit it into the rope and you will do this every day and without looking back.
When I say this to people and it seems that something magical happens even if the concept is simple if the person really wants to reach the mountain they will do it and for sure they will achieve their goal.
Finishing...
Adjust that part of your focus.
"FIRST BUILD THE BRIDGE PIECE BY PIECE, AFTER THAT YOU CAN REACH THE MOUNTAIN"
Believe me, there is no shortcut to many things in life.
It may be difficult but it is always amazing the taste of victory!
A big hug
这个桥漂亮，
比我前几天分享的感觉要摇晃的更精彩。
Dear @chbartist sir!
At present, everyone is trying to prove himself better, for which he works hard constantly and sometimes will be successful, sometimes failure will come, we will find his critics everywhere, but we have to ignore him by moving ahead and imitating others. Try to recognize the shortcomings of the survivors and overcome them.The mistake is the most, but who does not repeat it, makes his actions by planning, always attempts to learn from failure, attempts to learn from the good deeds of others, punctuality of time and his actions It continues to evaluate. It grows towards your destination and fulfills your dreams.
Regards.
Thank you @certain
i liked this image
ALL GOOD,@chbartist Focused on your writing about reaching that mountain of desires! You did those who do not know their scope should ask: Who am I? How do I describe myself? , and delve into his past of immobility that makes everything difficult. I will always maintain that labeling is a sign of immobility, of creating barriers with yourself, this guarantees that you will not strive to achieve your goals. When we consider the potential to choose what we want to achieve, consider the word immobility as an indicator of your negative actions to reach your goals. If you are angry, perhaps this avoids doing or saying things that you want to express? If this is not the case, why then do you allow me to immobilize you; If you are convinced that your thinking will lead you to be disabled, you have no choice but to change or modify your way of thinking. It is not enough to change only the thinking and waiting, WE HAVE TO ACT, as we have observed every thought is engaged with the effect of acting, so that if you leave the single thought not associated with the execution, our mind in free association it will end up being irrational or blocked.
My great greeting and I hope we continue in this fight to break the induced barriers.
@olnavi You have to make an effort to reach the objectives you have set. There is no greater gratification than achieving the desired and more if you made the maximum effort
Thank you for your comment!
The bridge looks very shocking.it is a great place to bungee！
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Mountain = the vision of what you want to achieve
Bridge = your short and long term goals to accomplish your mission
Focus = setting your priority right; in order not to be distracted of what you ought to do
There are many crossroads in our way. And if we don't have a determined focus in reaching our dreams, it would be stolen. Unfocused is one of our dreams' stealer.
Perfect
Wow, what a bridge! You are braver than I!!
The pic is so relevant to your post which brought back thoughts running in my mind seeing it! One should not feel lonely when trying to build the bridge and should not bother about criticism. After all the critics themselves will applaud when you reach the mountain!!
Yes @vanddy
Great Mr @chbartist ,we should focus on our goals, I agree. Now a days people wants to get things through short cut which is impossible, hard work is necessary to get something.
have a good day
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Have a good weekend friend!
Each and everyone has a mountain to face on one way or the other. But with great focus, pesistence and resilience. ..we shall overcome every obstacle in our way.... big ups bro
YES!
Achieving goals in life require a focused vision. We must be focused on what we need and do all the best possible efforts to make it true. I agree that it will require time. Shouldn't look for shortcut as if take shortcut then may be get the temporary sucess easily but that won't last long. When invest our precious time in something and then we get success then it becomes victory which we will cherish for lifetime. Its very good topic you choose today dear @chbartist thanks.
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Thank you friend!
Wow, that photo just looks like the one when I was in basic training at Ft. Jackson, SC back in the day.
Thanks for the post brought back memories. Have a great day.
Thank you!
You're right, there are many things that paralyze us sometimes ... and make it very difficult to reach the goal ..
Beautiful advice. Have a good night!
Good night @blessed-girl!
You are really a great motivator @chbartist! This is what I really need. Sometimes, I hurry things/dreams and end up disappointed. I didn't know that BIG dreams takes time and everyday I have to take small steps in order to achieve that dream.
Thank you @brooksm! Welcome
Thank you Sir, you have told a very good thing to be successful and to attain your dreams, we need to focus on our goal.
Only then can we fulfill our dreams.
Thank you, Success
Welcome sir
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Everything is well explained @chbartist. Thanks for sharing this, I was challenged to really FOCUS FOCUS FOCUS!
YES, YES, YES....
First of all one has to dream about the things one wants. That dream help to set goal. Once, goal is set, journey to reach it begins. It is important to set a goal but it remains unimportant till one don't find a way to reach there. One must have a vision to achieve the goal. One need to work hard and keep patience till the target is not achieved. This is the mantra of success.
Thanks @akdx
wow that is such a simple but vital concept, just dreaming about the goal can give you such a good feeling that makes you relax and not go and actually take action towards achieving it....it is so vital to make a distinction between the act of visualizing the goal and the process of actualizing it..GREAT READ!!
Thank you!
What an outstanding post! Thanks to your advice and now I need to follow and focus on something. Focus on future actions and opportunities to learn, improve, results and outcomes will come. Thanks for these amazing blog.
I agree with you! Such a great post to read combine positive focus on future actions and opportunities to learn and improve and to achieve dreams.
Recognizes what is going well as much as what needs to be improved. Focused on work-related situations will makes the person feel at ease. So inspiring. Great read!!
Thank you!
Focus is important as many things that could happen will happen to disrupt progress. In many projects I like to say it is important to always "keep the ball rolling" as momentum could be used to your advantage to achieve goals. If stopped, you can lose focus and momentum and to restart takes much more time that going at a slow pace.
Exactly @newageinv! Regards
Focus on to the goal! Fix your eyes to the prize. That's how I motivate myself... Every time I fix my eyes to the goal, I am always reminded not to give up. Just press on and surely all the sacrifices will be paid off.
Yes
Thanks for helping me see the mountain! Upvoted and Resteemed
Thank you so.....
Realising that there is no easy way in anything one engages is the first and the biggest step to adopting a realistic mindset. sometime thinking about how long it might take without committing to it is another big enemy to achieving our dream.
Exactly
set your goals high, and dont stop till you get there.
YES!
Thank you for sharing your story. This has helped me more than you will know! Really great advice, thank you :)
WOW I LOVE THIS BRIDGE
Nice
Perfect post. I love it
Great Mr @chbartist ,we should focus on our goals, I agree. Now a days people wants to get things through short cut which is impossible, hard work is necessary to get something.
have a good day
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amazing post thanks for sharing
Yes off course you are right..people including me should take their dream of life in steps without seeing what is going around....
People usually just look over their dream without doing anything.
I THink focus in steps is only success in one's dream.
@chbartist
Hace un tiempo veía muchos las películas de Bruce Lee y lo relaciono con el siguiente vídeo
Creo que nuestros sueños se logran dependiendo del enfoque que le demos. Ese enfoque se desarrolla con un plan, estrategia, ejercicios, esfuerzos...Pero cada día debemos estar en el mismo enfoque, desarrollar nuestras propias técnicas y cada día perfeccionarlas...hasta que esa técnica sea única e invencible. Hay algo fundamental que debemos de tener en ese día a día.. algo que yo llamaría la PASIÓN, esa pasión se alimenta con nuestro sentir y visualización de ver ese sueño mas cerca y materializado.. Bueno ese es mi punto de vista...espero que todos los compañeros que comenten y sus comentarios sean diferentes al mio...pues los respeto y estamos para poder analizarlos.... Bendiciones..
@chbartist sir ?
Right but the main thing is consistency if you set goal but you not follow the rules of consistency then you never attain your goal am i right sir?
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He was 100% right; I can tell this from my own experience. At one point in my life, I was much committed to a goal, that I almost forgot I have a family who love and yearn for my attention and yet I ignored them and totally focused on my goal. Guess what? I failed to achieve it; then I felt totally ashamed of my behavior towards my near and dear ones and totally abandoned my outside responsibilities; I went from one extreme to the other extreme: both are problematic and are prone to failure, depression, and/or anxiety. At another point in my life, I ultimately achieved something, something of a kind that I have been waiting for so many years to get, and this is the first time I got something like this. But when I achieved itm I felt relaxed and slowly but surely retired from my responsibilities, since I already achieved it! I deserve rest now. However, internally, I was not happy either, because I was questioning myself: does it worth so much struggle, pain & sacrifices? I mean, I didn't really enjoy much of the process I had to go through to achieve that goal, most of the steps directly conflicted with my personality type (I had to do a lot of acting to conform with the crowd around me though I didn't like those type of people), yet I forbore for the sake of that goal because I was thinking: how awesome that goal would be! If I achieve it, its joy will definitely let me forget about all those sacrifices, etc. But the opposite happened. I felt that the joy was momentary, as compared to the actual pains of the process. In summary, I realized that if you don't like the process, no matter whether you achieve your goal or not, you won't be satisfied/fulfilled/happy. So love what you do rather than loving/focusing on your goals.
Great comment! Regards