I can talk for myself, i'm out of the closet for 4 years now... I accepted myself because I had not much left to loose, and a part of my life wasn't fulfill. When I get a rush of gender dysphoria I just go out as a woman... the way I feel. And I pass pretty well so now it's kind of fun for me. a little bit shy, but damn I don't give a fuck, I'm a princess and when I feel like that, it doesn't matter what others think of me. and like I say: 1 happy day as woman beats the crap of 100 day as a sad man. nikky xxxx