Bitterness; Anger; Pain; hate; Revenge
Humans, being who we are, are bond to do things that would hurt others and cause them pain. Sometimes our actions are intentional, in other cases, there are no intentions, but certain actions we take, hurt the people around us and those we care about it.
Many times, we have allowed the bitterness and pain inside of us control us, that all our thoughts are geared towards ill will, hate and revenge.
The question we really need to ask ourselves is, does any of these (bitterness, anger, pain, hate, revenge) produce good result?
Well if you want to know what my answer is, they yield no positive result, neither would they give a feeling of fulfilment. Rather they will destroy you
I saw a movie recently, Acrimony.No intentions to review the movie here, but I had to give it some very deep thought.
Acrimony: best describe with bitterness, anger, pain, ill will, bad blood, furry, hate, hostility, resentment and so many other words. One single explanation; Mental disorder(craziness) says it all.
The movie gives a better picture of what hate, anger, pain, resentment, revenge can do to you, when you give them a space in your heart.
Bitterness; Omg, it eats you up like a virus. Believe me, it is worse than a virus itself. It will eat you, suck you of any likely joy, drain all your happiness and leave you in a stranded frustrated world of your own.
Anger: This is as bad and bitterness, or even worse. If you don't get a hold of it and you allow it control you, my oh my;
I wish I could help you take away the regret and pain it will serve you. But I can't, neither can anyone one else, not even you. It will leave you in a world of regret you will never be able to work away from in a very long time.
Revenge: Driven by bitterness, anger and pain. When you dwell in the thoughts of revenge, it drives you like a wild fire, sucks you in and you get carried away with only the thoughts of revenge. It will always feel like you are doing the right thing and you will get your closure once you achieved your goal.
Amazingly, what seems like something of fulfilment, will leave you in a world of emptiness and guilt.
Bitterness, Anger, Pain, Hate and Revenge all work together to destroy you if you yield to any one of them.
What was portrayed on the movie Acrimony tell a lot about how bitterness, anger, hate, resentment, pain; drives us to Revenge.
Nothing or no one will seem right to you,at that point.
In conclusion, irrespective of how hurt you feel, let go of the bitterness. Share if you have to, talk to someone, it sure helps. Trust me, you do not want to be left in that dark world where bitterness, hate and revenge will dump be.
my dear, it is a dark and scary world. Life is too short and too much fun for us to waste a part of it in a dark.
Thank you once again for stopping by and reading.
What an awesome post @ceepee. There are a lot of people out there dwelling in bitterness and anger. Thanks for sharing.
And those words whose pronunciations are not even sweet to the ear are the root of all unhappiness, wickedness and evil found in our world today.
Stay away from them and be happy you did.
@ceepee, this post is so nice, thanks for serving it at this early hours of the day.
Thank you. A lot of wickedness due to anger and bitterness.
Indeed,anger, bitterness,hate, revenge is a deep feeling which can take control of us if care isnt taken...thank you for this initiative and nice piece..Hello @ceepee
You are on point!!!
Thanks @vickyrich. Is good to have you around
Meditating on this negative thought is liking inflicting harm to your own self and can cause you to age faster.
nice one @ceepee
You are very right @chrisyanthony. Is causes more harm than good.
Smiles, what an awesome post.
Stay happy and rock life!
Thanks dear. We can only live a life once so why not live the best of it?
I don't know and cant tell you about bitterness and the other things listed but I can tell you about anger.
I once dwelt there and know what it means to be angry. Anger kills faster than poison
Anger......I have been there. Not a pleasant place to dwell. Thanks for stopping by.
Welcome Capt P
I'll like to start from here:
I would have called it cancer but you describe it as virus and I have to accept. It eats deep. Chew through the mind leaving venomous traits behind.
You may have good reasons to be angry, sad, feeling bitter. But that doesn't justify the fact that it is not a good thing..
Thank captain for sharing this.
Stay blessed
Cancer is a perfect word to describe it. Actions done out of anger always leaves us regretting.
Yes yes... Actions done out of anger always leaves us regretting. I've learned to always walk away when anger is imminent.
That's why we are humans. But I believe where "error" abides; "mercy" does abide more.
Nice piece ma'am
If only people would understand that there is mercy available, they will not give room to anger.
No matter what people are going to hurt us but the ability of us to bear the pain and control our anger is what matters. Revenge most times doesn't ease pains.Beautiful write up @ceepee