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Yeah! helping and not tolerating them. Sometimes you have to sacrifice a little in order to gain much!

Couldn't agree more! There's a difference between helping and tolerating. Helping someone means you are letting that person grow to become better while tolerating them will only result to dependence.

Dependence or abuse. Yeah, I agree with you. It's just that some people don't have the will or courage to refuse.

Both actually! Maybe they are just afraid because if they say "No", people will not accept them.

That's exactly what I had in mind! Some people think that saying no would entail that they will excluded in the inner circle of the group. That's a twisted way of thinking.