As a human being I’ve tried to live like an independent person from the very beginning of my life when started to understand the hidden meaning of society and other social institutions.
Almost all the social institutions, systems and regulations have been initiated to control the human behaviours. It has being forced to believe in many dimension that society and the other related systems are just for the greater well being for the human. But in reality the truth is far different than the most people understand. The family and the relationships are apparently the part of the whole system.
I’m not telling that the whole system is bad or something like this. But the system we are practicing actually working for few people in the society. Because they have created the systems gradually.
I strongly believe in individual freedom which is only possible by practicing equality and justice for all in every aspects.
A life of any person is significantly limited and uncertain. So, is there any doubt for not exploring the life as much as possible without bothering others, and in some context others could be helpful at the same time. Isn’t it awesome?
So, why create conflicts and problem when you can make your life more enjoyable and meaningful at the same time. Keeping self aloof to defend self is just stupid I think. You can’t make happy everybody. So, don’t try that. Just try to make yourself happy.