Yeah for the "party of progress" a lot of leftists are pretty stuck in the past, and insist on all of us still living there.

I don't fool myself into thinking everything is perfect. It never will be, but the victimization some people utilize is revolting. I think it's fine to refer to specific situations in which humanity can improve, or where you've been specifically wronged and things need to change. I was harassed time and again in the discords. I was sent unwanted inappropriate pics, but I just addressed those specific issues. I didn't jump into the deep end and start accusing all men of being pigs, or insisting that I deserved something for my mistreatment. I said my peace and I was done. You can do whatever you like on this platform, people are free to do that. But I am also free to call that kind of behavior out. And I did.

Now, instead of starting a full out gender war, I just created a space for women to talk to each other. That was a solution. Why don't people come up with better solutions? They don't want to find a solution that's why. They just want to have a platform to continuously bitch. If the problems get solved, and their lives are still shit, they will no longer have anyone to blame it on but themselves, and they don't want to have to face that.