That is a lot to go through. Support is very important. Some people have no problem receiving support but no idea how to give it. My last two boyfriends were horribly codependent and had no idea how to see outside of their own wants and needs. Neither having stready income the duration of either relationship. My now husband was unemployed two weeks once but it was completely different because it came with no sense of entitlement and he took over with food and other things since that's all he could do at the time. I was expected to cook, clean, and pay bills that weren't even mine with the other two.