You go a club and start to buy expensive drinks so as to impress a lady or oppress people around you. Whereas you do not earn up to the amount you are spending.
People like to live beyond their earning which does not favour them. I will tell you the truth, nobody can leave beyond their income and still remain at the top.
Live at your pace, never go beyond your means
This attitude kills and ruin so many people, they only realize it after they have lost almost what they have.
Leaving beyond your means keeps yourself in a great bondage.