Actually, everyone has ever had such situation when people tried to injure us, to humiliate, to give us pain. To address us any negative.
I have decided to write down how I react to the negative and what exactly I think of it.
My greatest life’s discovery is the understanding of the real men’s hate. Once upon a time I have thought about why people behave so: they try to injure and to humiliate the others. We can see those things they show to the world, but I tried to think and understand what’s going on inside of them.
Then I understood that a man, showing negative, does it not because he’s evil, not because he’s bad. But because he’s full of negative emotions inside. Probably it happened to him as a result of the long suffering, worries or, even, hate to himself. Or, probably, as a result of the lack of love in his life.
It means that a person who tries to injure another one is deep unhappy inside. Such person doesn’t deserve the negative as the answer, he deserves just the compassion.
Our attitude to the others is the reflection of our attitude to ourselves. There is the Mirror’s law in our Universe and it’s not changeable.
The problem is in that we’re not perfect. Don’t try to remake anyone; the main is not to respond to the negative negatively. If you respond so, there will be more evil.
So many people try to explain or prove something to the person who injured them, when they take the negative. Such behavior is the result of the excessive ego’s activity. Only ego tries to explain, to prove. Only ego is concentrated to win in the argue. But such actions will never lead us to harmony. When you see that a person is negatively addressed to you, refuse from the struggle and from the wish to prove something to someone. You are on the different frequencies (the waves). That’s why, in any way, your arguments won’t be accepted by this person.
Only resentful people try to injure. Conversely, happy people try to make someone happy. Such people have no jealous, no evil, no hate. If anyone gives you pain, he’s an unhappy person deep inside. The happy people don’t rude in the lines, they don’t curse on the social transport, they don’t gossip about their colleagues. They don’t write down the filth in the comments.
Respond by Love to the Evil. So you will neutralize the Evil for yourself and for the whole Universe.
Everything you see in me is not mine. The mine is what I see in you.
Don’t accept any negative. While you don’t accept it, it belongs to that person who brought it.