The first part of your post rang so true and if you asked my son what he thought of his father I'm sure the answer would be word for word like yours. @kiwideb and I lost our father in September and like @sift666 says that leg is very familiar. :)
I hope that your son can forgive his father. Sometimes, when it all gets a bit too much I struggle to forgive. Old memories, programs and triggers rear their ugly heads and take control of my thoughts and actions. It's not healthy which is why I needed to write this post and get it off my chest. I feel much better already.
Thank you - it was a difficult time. Yes I find the same thing - if I talk about it enough it loses some of it's sting - I'm glad you're feeling better :)
I hope that your son can forgive his father. Sometimes, when it all gets a bit too much I struggle to forgive. Old memories, programs and triggers rear their ugly heads and take control of my thoughts and actions. It's not healthy which is why I needed to write this post and get it off my chest. I feel much better already.
I'm very sorry to hear of your loss.
Thank you - it was a difficult time. Yes I find the same thing - if I talk about it enough it loses some of it's sting - I'm glad you're feeling better :)