I thought this post was going to be about being the bigger person and apologizing when apologies need to be made. I didn't know it was going to be about the book and movie haha.

But yeah, I feel you!

I remember being really rude to a parking attendant once (cause I was being a moody bitch.) I felt so bad I apologized to him later and we shook hands. He also told me not to worry about it.

It's these moments that really tell who a person really is.

I don't know how many times I have seen it in people who clearly know what they screwed up, but instead of making amends, they start to make up excuses to validate their insecurities.

"Oh it wasn't my fault. He was the one who walked into me."

"Oh I was drunk. I don't remember anything so therefore it doesn't count."

"If he didn't want me to cheat on him, he should treated me better!"

And so on.

Although I must say, it can be a little hard to swallow one's pride. I personally need to work on forgiving others and not raining hell on them before giving them a chance to even apologize.

Thanks for the post @hanshotfirst. Definitely checking out the book.