sensible words hun, where you were not a pushover by letting the person back into your life, when they didn't deserve to be there, but like you said.. forgive and move on.
Even down to the simple argument.. I never adopted that 'silent treatment' punishment, instead I say my piece and get on with it.. then its easy to see past it!
Ever since I joined steemit .. you were one of the first people I saw here... Your articles are always very informative and interesting x