Fighting is a natural phenomenon in life and everyone engages in it one way or the order. Truth be told, one will never stop fighting in Hus entire life time as this is a continuous process that occurs within oneself and outside as well.
I know a lot of you would probably we wondering what I'm talking about as you would be thinking to yourself like "naah" I have stopped doing such a long time ago. But think about the time you sat and thought to yourself, if you should to this or do that or eat this or eat that or even eat at all,aha! That's what I'm talking about.
We are faced with different situations and circumstances everyday and this continues for ad long as we are alive. The issue now is what should we really be fighting and how should we fight this fight.
In life there are issues and events that occur that could be regarded as menial or serious, unimportant or important or irrelevant or relevant depending on whose involved.
How thus is placed is solely dependent on "YOU",you are the key player in this
My aim however is to shift your attention from the less important things that are constantly fighting for your attention and placing them on the more important stuffs.
WAYS TO DO THIS IS THAT
- You must identity the ,"Small fights" in your life.
- You must make up your mind to leave " small fights" for small fighters
- You must identify the "Big fights"
- You must be determined and stay focus on the Big fights,by
- Surrounding yourself with people of the same battle field
- Constantly feed your desire of this battle terrain and the statics involved
- Know your adversary well enough
- Research and find out more on this
*Get the necessary tools and equipments required
Now I know you would be wondering what I mean by "Small fights",well they hanging unto what someone has do to you for so long a time,they are giving your attention to gossips;of what someone said and didn't say,or whiling your whole time talking about other people, they are boarding if your partner is cheating on you or not,they are blaming everyone else for your misfortune other than yourself, etc.
Imagine you leave being idle and - Engaging in something productive;something worth the while.
- Quit playing the blame game and start taking responsibilities of yourself and the things around your immediate environs.
- Stop minding what people say or think about you and pressing on whenever you make mistakes.
- Making and building healthy relationships.
This brings me to "Big fights". These are your dreams, your visions, your aspirations, your goals, your expectations,your plans etc.
So spend time in developing these and yourself and discover different ways and strategies to achieving them.
Here's a breif write up that would inspire you more.
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Thanking for reading my post ,I hope you find it educative.
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