This sounds like a really horrible experience. You kept your calm a little better than I would have. I am guessing it wasn't a hedonist resort. Can't tell by your slight description of the place whether it was an adult only or family friendly. Either way, if it is not hedonist, then there should be no sexual displays in public. Maybe the other guy was used to getting away with it in public because the managers were lax on the rules. Or other people were scared of reporting him.
I suggest that if this ever happens again that you let first let him know that you are not interested. If he kept saying that he is gay then just let him know that you are straight and you are not interested. If he keeps persisting then tell his partner that he is talking with other guys and making sexual advances. By not saying anything to him then in his mind it was ok to keep trying. I am not blaming you for his actions, but this made it not seem bad in his mind. And the drunker he got, the more he wanted to press it. If anything, there should be a way to get a hold of the manager and report the incident. Especially if 2 people are sexual in public like that.
I usually go to a family friendly resort so that there is less chance of sexual stuff in public. Make sure to read the rules of the place before you go and make sure they aren't too strict though. The closest nudist spot to me is family friendly, but their rules are a bit too strict for me. And it really isn't that big. Married people can't even hold hands. Although I usually go alone, I believe that is a bit much. You shouldn't let this interaction change your mind about being a nudist. Just try to be a little more assertive earlier if something like this were to ever happen again.
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It was a family friendly place with rules about sexual conduct. Not quite as strict as no hand holding, but basically nothing overtly sexual. The really bad stuff happened after hours when the manager/owner had already gone to bed. I'm pretty sure it's a case of no one ever confronting the guy if his behavior got to be too much. For me it was a problem of he's a member, I am not. So how much would my word be worth compared to his?
I think it is a big problem with him being a member. Whether he has been there for a while or just became one. What do you think would happen if a kid was walking around late at night and wasn't being real noisy, and did get close enough to see something like that? Hopefully the kid would tell someone about it. I believe it would still be good to let the management know. If the management is good, then maybe one night they will sneak out late and see for themselves what is happening. Would be good to have them aware of it though. I would advise you call them when you have some time and explain what happened that night. It would be good for them to check into it, or eventually they may be liable for a lawsuit for allowing it to happen. So, I hope it goes well for you.
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