You are right. One number work we should try doing is to try to focus on improving ourself like you just said. We should try to build ourself into a better person or a best person rather.
We should always be our self and never leave on pretending just to please others.
We should not try to change ourself just to please others. There are some people that will accept you for what you are.
This is a great write up. Thank you for sharing this with us