@jerrybanfield This was VERY deep! Especially knowing you for about 9 years now! I do remember the stories you used to tell myself and our other friends way back when! I did find myself in similar situation but I do remember your guidance when I was about 19 or 20. This helped me a lot with a life change when i moved to Seattle when I was 21. Your friendship and seeing your growth helped me personally. Now I am in a happy relationship for almost 4 years and getting married next year! I still cant believe this! I know that we both have changed greatly over the past 5 years! I do think the women in our life have had a great impact on our lives! I am grateful for our friendship and happy that we have had such a great turnaround in our lives!