I really like that idea as well, that our sexuality shouldn't be something that one needs to know. However, I think being lgbtq is more than just what happens in a bedroom. Having a community where I can talk to other people who are like minded has always been important for me, especially in places where people aren't as open minded and accepted as you seem to be. So I just wanted to try and cultivate that community for Steemit. There is a culture around LGBTQ people, and its not JUST for LGBTQ people either. Allies and others can always come by to learn, ask questions and have regular old conversations haha

Thank you for your input though, i hear what you're sayin'!