thanks for taking the time for a dialog .
It seem that we have hit the wall of Religion vs Evolution . I personally have respect for the people who hold views on both sides . I do not think that it is a either or problem . One does not have to prove Religion is wrong for Evolution to be correct , or the opposite . Each one should stand or fall on its own merit . One is scientific and the other is faith based .

Fact and Theory .
This is one that concerns me . If an understanding of this is not understood then the whole conversation falls .

A Fact is a thing that is indisputable the case .

What we believe to be or wish has nothing to do with making something a Fact . We must agree that Evolution is a Theory and not indisputable . To this date Evolution is the best scientific explanation as far as we know it , But it is not absolute or fact at this time .

I made the mistake in being vague in my response to your post . It is a subject that you are compassionate about . A subject that should be discussed in good faith and not avoided .