Revealed; What Single-mothers-by-choice mean by “I don’t need men in My life” Statement

After reading this, you won’t be surprised anymore when you hear them bragging, "Why should any decent working woman like me need a man to control her life?"

First, let me make myself clear so that you can’t get me wrong. When I say single-mothers-by-choice I mean those ladies who are single parent mother's but never been married before nor don’t have any plans to get married ever. Unfortunately, women who meet such description make a very large population in the world, and Kenya is an example.

Yes, they mean what they say and have very valid reasons to substantiate their stand.

According to most of them, the main role of the man in a woman’s life is to sire children. So this role automatically expires upon the woman getting the number of children she desires. Anyway, these ladies don’t say how they got children as single mother by choice. Did they use AI? Sounds like an insult.

Another natural reason why a woman would need a man (which is now regarded as obsolete) is to provide for a woman. Now obsolete since these empowered single mothers are mostly financially stable or earn enough to sustain their family members. And that is it.

As for the so called conjugal rights in marriage, this is non-issue and not debatable to real and smart single mothers by choice -for they have a replacement/ substitute that works better. But shh! Let’s debate about this when children are asleep.

To most of them, asking about whether they have sexual feelings or not is like an insult. But wait! Are they maybe lesbians? The answer is a big no. It takes two or more women in a sexual relationship to qualify as lesbianism. Anyway, give it the benefit of doubt for they don’t mention that they don’t need other women in their lives too.

To just run through the facts about how they take care of their sexual urge as human beings like any other, remember, these ladies have more than enough experience in ‘betting’ and by the time they reach the point of utterances like “I can live without men,” they would have qualified as self-proclaimed professional “betters”; In other words ‘master betters’ with a better meaning if you replace the ‘A’ in the word “master.”

Many years of experience gained in the ‘betting’ profession since high school times in girls-only high school. And in order to permanently erase the desires for men in their lives, they have also gone artificial and secured themselves with what makes men be called men, commonly known as ‘man-in-hand’ highly used in erotic world.

Do you understand now what make these single mothers by choice so different from the normal marriageable women?