Can we consistently make our goal and dreams a reality?
Sometimes we easily manage to manifest our desires and other times no matter how hard we try, our desires only seem to slip further away from us.
Today I got a phone call from a friend, a 24 year old woman fresh out of college, with big goals and many talents, her name is Ruby. Ruby said she quit her job at a family office investment company today and that she is feeling lost.
Everything in my life is good, but I simply feel stuck, Ruby said with a helpless tone, I feel like I need to get away from all this.
Ruby is a great girl but like many of us in our generation she wants everything here, now and fast. Her point of view is so distorted by today's norms that she can't even see the progress that she is making.
Many of us are in similar situations, feeling lost and meaningless.
I don't get it , Ruby continued, I do all the manifestation practices and summon the things I desire but it doesn't work.
Most of us are familiar with the concepts of the law of attraction and other spiritual practices to create what we want but for some reason we can pretty simply manifest ourselves a parking space but don't seem to manage to attract what we want.
To attract the things she wants to her life Ruby, and most people, needs to change her perspective. Thinking good, positive and constructive thoughts for an hour a day and then being negative the rest of the time is the sane as pulling a rope from both sides and expecting to get somewhere.
When Ruby is bitching about her boring job and annoying friends she is activating the law of attraction and she is getting exactly what she puts her mind to - more boring work and annoying friends. To change that she needs to focus on the positive aspects of her life and talk, think and breathe her desires without paying special attention to the less positive parts of her life.
The other thing Ruby needs to do to manifest her goals is to let go. Although this concept sounds simple it is extremly hard to simply send a thought to activate the law of attraction, set the goal and let it go and stop overthinking. Once the universe has received our request things come into motion and we just need to be prepared to act when the circumstances will call for it.
The main issue that stops us from letting go and focusing on the posotive is our environment and foreign thoughts that fill our mind from different meaningful moments in our life. To manifest our dreams we need to clean all this clutter away.
When visualizing a parking space there are no subconscious programs that tell us we aren't good enough to find a parking space. The universe simply gets the image we requests and in the right time a car pulls out and we have pur parking space.
To help Ruby I decided to book 3 sessions to clear as much of her limiting beliefs and subconscious blocks. I know I can do all the spiritual and mental jiu jitsu there is, but it wont work unless she is willing to truly open up and to let go of the clutter that is stopping her from reaching her goals, clutter that is part of her personality.
Wish me luck and I will keep you posted.
Thank you for your time.
With love.
Eugene
