Telling your family is the best choice. Having them aware of their situation and seeking remedies together, is powerfully important. All heads are better than one or two and builds the family bonds.
By being here on steemit, you are way ahead of the curve, my friend.
Looking at your page I see a 2nd meetup soon. Do I hear opportunity knocking?
I am keeping a good thought for you and your family. Steemit like you mean it!
Followed and resteemed.