Best Relation
Relation of husband and wife is one the best relation in Islam.
Allah says in Quran:
And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquillity in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed in that are signs for a people who give thought.
(30:21)
Allah has indeed created man and woman to be the natural counterparts of the other. They are natural companions both physically and mentally. These indeed are signs for us.
The nature of the relationship from the outset is that it should be one conducive to the fulfilment of companionship, affection/love, tranquillity and mercy. Furthermore, it is these elements which should be the context of marital interactions.
The Prophet (sall Allahu alaihe wa sallam) stated, “Allah is pleased when a husband plays with his wife, due to this he fixes thawaab (good reward) for them or he establishes halal rizq (lawful sustenance) for them.”
The prophet (PBUH)stated,
Be kind towards your women. Take heed! You have rights over your women and your women also have rights over you. Their rights over you are that you provide food and clothing for them in good faith. Your rights over them are that they do not allow and nor do they give permission, for people to trespass into your house whose presence you dislike.
ماشاء الله