Well you know why we get depressed. For me its because we try to act like others and that don't happen because their capabilities and talents are different than yours. See what you are good at. This gives you a great sense of inspiration an will help you in moving forward. I have a story to tell you what happens if we get influenced by others
There is a old man who is having a goat. There are also 3 thieves who want to steal this goat. so they planned on how to steal the goat.
Then 1st thief went to the man and told him that why his dog is looking so ill. Then old man said that it is a goat. But the thief once again said that it is a dog and went. Likewise the other 2 thieves told some other stories like if the old man was carrying the dog.
The old man doubted for a while and finally got convinced and left the goat and went back. Then the 3 thieves happily took away the goat.
Moral: Don't get convinced or persuaded by other people. Believe in yourself. Focus on your strengths,be happy and make others happy. And don't forget to follow @newpioneer
That was a very sincer response to @steem.moon@kreddy. I really like how you told her to focus on being and believing in herself. This is such good advice for dealing with depression and other peoples criticism. Your story about the old man, the three thieves, and the goat is priceless! Thank you for helping me lift people up here on Steemit! If that's all we end up accomplish here on this platform then we truly have been successful. :)
One of my senior uplifted me by telling this story to me when I was trying to get a job in final year of engineering. I worked so hard day and night during my engineering and thought I deserve to get placed first. But my entire 4th year got ruined in attempting to get a job. But supreme personality of godhead know what I did and what I deserve. So he sent me a wonderful job offer one month after graduation. I got a job offer in world reputed organisation SUZUKI
Btw I made an article to help out fellow steemians for some questions that I have seen in some comments section. I would be glad if you answer some questions if you know any one of them.
It can feel depressing when you look around and don't see the life you want... But the key in changing that reality is all about training your mind to look for the things you are grateful for. When you do that your more receptive to the things in life that will move you towards your goals.
If I'm driving down the road and I'm looking at the rocks, trees, and power poles then I'm probably going to end up veering of the road and hitting those obstacles.I always think of it like this @steem.moon:
If, on the other hand, I'm driving down the road and I'm looking where I want to go... Chances are pretty good that I'm going to get there... in one piece!
Are those obstacles still there? Yes they are. But when your more focused on where your going your more likely to creatively find solutions around those obstacles... and your likely going to expend way less energy overcoming them.
We all have obstacles and limitations... It's all part of being a finite human being... It's something we all have in common. That's why we all got to try our best to encourage and support those around us. It's all about positive energy.
Here's another thing to think about...
I believe in making my own luck. How about you?
In my life there is very activities have around me there there is lot of fun good things i live in good life my independent everyone wants to live my life😀...Hi @newpioneer
........
But😔 every one dont knows about about my tentions, pains my in my lifes booklet where is hardness i work with sincerity i give them all respects and want everyone should respect me feel my depressions but there is nothing.. After sping a most beautifull day at night when comes i feel depression i thinking about all my tention who gives me from anywhare i feel bad i feel in depreesed and crying everytime
I think about that why people like do with me bad behaviour tell me about my mistake
In life there is for females so tough to servive people want to killed 👭 girls
I beliving to make my luck i do it far i get up with more power and still stand and fight these things.... But when people tease me tease me tease me 💯 times when i feel low decresing my power of strongest....
When i saw you @newpioneer you i feel you so lucky you are male you stand for yourself you are independent you can do it everything you want to do but i am not... Because i am a girl and spend life in socialism... When i 😢 crying many time and feel powerless
Hi @steem.moon. I think I understand the gist of what you are saying. Personally I think that you need to learn more about healthy boundaries. If there are people in your life (even family) who are tearing you down in order to keep the power balance in your relationship... Then the best thing to do is slowly carefully detox from those relationships. Every minuet you devote to unhealthy people is a minuet you could be giving to someone who lifts you up.
Another thing... Depression could be coming from caring to much about these negative people... Finding a different way to think about them could be objective.
For example: If I get on the bus and someone I don't know on the bus says a lot of hateful things... I might be upset... But not really because I'm probably never going to see them again... So who cares. It's the caring that brings your spirit low. You don't have to care about people who don't really care for you... Right?
It's all about establishing healthy boundrys and thereby forcing the people you allow in your life to behave in healthy ways.
In my opinion success has nothing to do with being female or male. Culturally there could be difficulties... But if women band together and support each other then I'm sure the culture would slowly change.
Now... As for your comment, "servive people want to killed 👭 girls".
Could you explain this to me? I'm guessing that your making use of google translate or something like that and it may not have translated your text in the correct manner.
Please don't ever feel down for being a girl. They are many motivating women personalities in history . Take time and read about them. You feel better and motivated.one more suggestion is that please get surrounded by good people who encourage you and fill positivity in life. From whatever you said I can see that you have gone through so many hardships in your and that might have toughened your character.
See all I can say is people who are grown up easily cannot survive in this modern world. So chill chill😀😀
Thank you @steem.moon! :)
Hows you @newpioneer
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Doing good over here on a Sunday in Canada @steem.moon. Got up early to reply to all you all! Lots of fun! How about you?
Wao its great to have fun but there is nothing i still feel in depression and concious about my life another way you lucky
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Well you know why we get depressed. For me its because we try to act like others and that don't happen because their capabilities and talents are different than yours. See what you are good at. This gives you a great sense of inspiration an will help you in moving forward. I have a story to tell you what happens if we get influenced by others
There is a old man who is having a goat. There are also 3 thieves who want to steal this goat. so they planned on how to steal the goat.
Then 1st thief went to the man and told him that why his dog is looking so ill. Then old man said that it is a goat. But the thief once again said that it is a dog and went. Likewise the other 2 thieves told some other stories like if the old man was carrying the dog.
The old man doubted for a while and finally got convinced and left the goat and went back. Then the 3 thieves happily took away the goat.
Moral: Don't get convinced or persuaded by other people. Believe in yourself. Focus on your strengths,be happy and make others happy. And don't forget to follow @newpioneer
Yes yu right
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That was a very sincer response to @steem.moon @kreddy. I really like how you told her to focus on being and believing in herself. This is such good advice for dealing with depression and other peoples criticism. Your story about the old man, the three thieves, and the goat is priceless! Thank you for helping me lift people up here on Steemit! If that's all we end up accomplish here on this platform then we truly have been successful. :)
One of my senior uplifted me by telling this story to me when I was trying to get a job in final year of engineering. I worked so hard day and night during my engineering and thought I deserve to get placed first. But my entire 4th year got ruined in attempting to get a job. But supreme personality of godhead know what I did and what I deserve. So he sent me a wonderful job offer one month after graduation. I got a job offer in world reputed organisation SUZUKI
Btw I made an article to help out fellow steemians for some questions that I have seen in some comments section. I would be glad if you answer some questions if you know any one of them.
It can feel depressing when you look around and don't see the life you want... But the key in changing that reality is all about training your mind to look for the things you are grateful for. When you do that your more receptive to the things in life that will move you towards your goals.
If I'm driving down the road and I'm looking at the rocks, trees, and power poles then I'm probably going to end up veering of the road and hitting those obstacles.I always think of it like this @steem.moon:
If, on the other hand, I'm driving down the road and I'm looking where I want to go... Chances are pretty good that I'm going to get there... in one piece!
Are those obstacles still there? Yes they are. But when your more focused on where your going your more likely to creatively find solutions around those obstacles... and your likely going to expend way less energy overcoming them.
We all have obstacles and limitations... It's all part of being a finite human being... It's something we all have in common. That's why we all got to try our best to encourage and support those around us. It's all about positive energy.
Here's another thing to think about...
I believe in making my own luck. How about you?
In my life there is very activities have around me there there is lot of fun good things i live in good life my independent everyone wants to live my life😀...Hi @newpioneer
........
But😔 every one dont knows about about my tentions, pains my in my lifes booklet where is hardness i work with sincerity i give them all respects and want everyone should respect me feel my depressions but there is nothing.. After sping a most beautifull day at night when comes i feel depression i thinking about all my tention who gives me from anywhare i feel bad i feel in depreesed and crying everytime
I think about that why people like do with me bad behaviour tell me about my mistake
In life there is for females so tough to servive people want to killed 👭 girls
I beliving to make my luck i do it far i get up with more power and still stand and fight these things.... But when people tease me tease me tease me 💯 times when i feel low decresing my power of strongest....
On that moment what should i do @newpioneer
When i saw you @newpioneer you i feel you so lucky you are male you stand for yourself you are independent you can do it everything you want to do but i am not... Because i am a girl and spend life in socialism... When i 😢 crying many time and feel powerless
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Hi @steem.moon. I think I understand the gist of what you are saying. Personally I think that you need to learn more about healthy boundaries. If there are people in your life (even family) who are tearing you down in order to keep the power balance in your relationship... Then the best thing to do is slowly carefully detox from those relationships. Every minuet you devote to unhealthy people is a minuet you could be giving to someone who lifts you up.
Another thing... Depression could be coming from caring to much about these negative people... Finding a different way to think about them could be objective.
For example: If I get on the bus and someone I don't know on the bus says a lot of hateful things... I might be upset... But not really because I'm probably never going to see them again... So who cares. It's the caring that brings your spirit low. You don't have to care about people who don't really care for you... Right?
It's all about establishing healthy boundrys and thereby forcing the people you allow in your life to behave in healthy ways.
In my opinion success has nothing to do with being female or male. Culturally there could be difficulties... But if women band together and support each other then I'm sure the culture would slowly change.
Now... As for your comment, "servive people want to killed 👭 girls".
Could you explain this to me? I'm guessing that your making use of google translate or something like that and it may not have translated your text in the correct manner.
Please don't ever feel down for being a girl. They are many motivating women personalities in history . Take time and read about them. You feel better and motivated.one more suggestion is that please get surrounded by good people who encourage you and fill positivity in life. From whatever you said I can see that you have gone through so many hardships in your and that might have toughened your character.
See all I can say is people who are grown up easily cannot survive in this modern world. So chill chill😀😀
Its my pleasure dear
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