As we all used go personally in every instance whenever our friend`s used to hurt us or underestimate us. Believe it or not people r selfish, no one care what u really wants to they only care of their interest. everyone used to live their own world no body have time for you ..even someone give you a time not most of but usually he is expecting something from you.
They don't notice your suffering or celebrating your success. what they notice is your fault and tends to make that fault you weakness.Don’t take it personally it is the psychology of people to behave like it. you don't need to be hurt either your friend`s or your around people treat in rude manner, this is neither wrong nor right neither good nor bad. It is simply the life fact is the way it is.
When you want someone to notice you or excepting something in return what you had done to other then simply you r making fool of you. Think how it would be if the people did notice every time you did something wrong. they point it out it .but when you do something good for someone they just enhance their expectation from you rather to bother help you ,when ever you stop to treat like they want they leave you.they`s anger u with their intrusion. It would be harder to make correction, but you have to move on.
Dont take it personnel whenever your dear ones hurt you. once they were stranger for you even thou your life was cool., may be better than this so assume that it has nothing to do with you. A person has been holding in his feeling a long time before you came into his life.
Don`t take it personally when somebody doesn’t do as u want, when someone does stand in your expectation, when someone start to ignore you,
If u start to live like nothing happen it`s doesn’t matter u. if u didn’t fell bad about yourself, you never would have taken the event of the world so personally.
The outside world has nothing to do with u. the world is within u.
The ways you react to the world only reflect how you feel about yourself.
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@ricmark
Well said, @optimistboy. Most people are out to do good and only accidentally cause hurt feelings because they are more invested in themselves than other's around them. Realizing that can help ease and mend the pain when it happens.