Thanks for your post and vote! The choice for children should not depend on the fear of giving birth. Have confidence in your body. It has been made possible to do this. Of course there are always exceptions. Unfortunately, you often only hear the bad stories. Fortunately, it often goes well! Good guidance and care is important in this and that is what I care for as a midwife. Research has shown that it is not necessarily more dangerous to give birth at home! That is partly due to the good education of midwives. In the Netherlands, the gynecologist is not in the hospital 24/7 and must also be called at home in case of emergency. You then also have a delay. It is important to choose a place where you feel most comfortable / relaxed. Your body makes the best contractions there and is therefore the best place to give birth.