Hi Tess! Thanks for your note, and let me welcome you too to Steemit. It's a confusing system, to be sure, but with time and dedication, things become clear. Feel free to ask me questions on my posts, even if it's off the post's topic. I've had to ask others in the same way and they were gracious enough to help when they could. If I can help answer your questions, I will too.
In the meantime, good luck and have fun!