My sisters like it. I was living in Ho Chi Minh City, AKA Saigon, Vietnam for 5 years until 217. It has over 10 million people in and around that city, that province. It's the biggest city in Vietnam. I was teaching English in Vietnam. Now, I'm near Seattle. But I like big cities as long as I'm networking, meeting new people, doing things. I like fast-paced lifestyles when I'm trying to do a bunch of things really quickly. But long-term speaking, it may be tough to keep up that pace forever. I may reconsider moving back into larger cities in the future but I do prefer farms.
I agree, life is what we make of it.