Something will always go wrong, how we react to what goes wrong makes all the difference. Myself I do not like being flagged for obvious reasons. I will still speak my thoughts where I strongly feel a comment is needed. Where others see a user been flagged for a nonlegitimate reason. I feel the flagger will eventually lose out over time.
Yes, I am meeting what I would say as nicer people, who converse with each other since finding the newbieresteem.