First of all, I like to welcome you to steemit.
Reading your post, I feel you.

Need to learn from others.
Need to understand what is trending on steemit and what’s not.dear @emilyandy, However, in addition to @maddiedee response, i believe that for each and everyone to be notice, First, you need to study what this community all about.

I am only here a month ago,
My intro was sucks.
I made a lot of mistakes.
I was not after recognition.
I took time to browse other posts, how is it written.

I join discord groups . I watch video tutorials of @errybanfield, @kenmelendez, @joeparys, @brandonfrye and many others.

It may not sound right to u but, i am a little dissapointed of your post here. For this, i am not upvoting you.
However, I will follow you and i will watch your next post.
Only then, you will have my every vote if I find your post friendly and great to read for all of us here on steemit.

We all love and care .. ❤️ @elvielins