sorry to hear what happened to you and your family, really terrible. but thank god you are all safe and in good health. as for losing your password, that really sucks as I really don't think there's any way to recover it unless somehow you can remember what it was.
best wishes to you and your family getting back on track with your lives.
Thank you @alexpmorris for your support! Can you remember your 20... whatever password? I lay my heart in the hands of God
And everything will be fine!