There might be something to that, as a man they often seem hostile towards me for no reason, one time I was getting on an airport shuttle and it was getting full and a woman got on and my wife elbowed me and was like "offer her your seat" so I got up and she yelled at me "I have a girlfriend!" but I also count a lesbian amoung the small handful of people I consider friends. For her she was really not doing well as a heterosexual, she is not attractive to most men but as a lesbian she is a rockstar, if I was ever single and wanted a wingman in the club to help me pick up chicks she would be my first choice.