Dealing with sand with a Spirit in it

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It actually a great deal pleasing humans, you will be celebrated and the next minute they crucify you. It pumps my mind and I'm trying to figure it out to people, when you talk.... You are regarded as a talkative when you try to caution yourself... You are named to proud, isn't that funny.

If you do a 99 good deeds and made only 1 mistakes,they tends to forget your good deeds and crucify you on that just one mistakes?
So is it not stupid to please people.
Note, when you please people, you lose yourself
When you wanna please yourself, you lose people, pleasing people to your own detriment is want I call stupidity.
This actually happened to me all my past few years thinking if I take this step, risk this or that one for my own good, what will people say

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I just sat down and came to a conclusion that why kill yourself even when people don't care about you an inch.

Some are close to you because you still offer them somethings while some because they wanted to use you to achieve something.
This is actually a difficult task because you are to follow peace with all men
How that can be possible is to be diplomatic on some issues, know that humans are wretched flesh you have to deal with.

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Note; make yourself happy because you own your life and you will account for it yourself not those people you are trying to please and hurt yourself.

Wish you all the best dealing with sand with a spirit in it(humans)