i experience just the same but there is no need for that, it will just deter you from carrying out acts that can help others. I didn't know how to format my post even in terms of the donation aspect. i concluded on a way and i did experience what you experience but did a post. Working on one more post for it!
I believe your a good guy Terry or I wouldn't have talked to you about it! Your Our Boy Terry after all!
Yes going to try comment now, so they know they have some more support