Thanks brother, you said it well. I feel complete on this issue now and although I have left an avenue open for him to further discuss this with me at the relevant thread. You're right, attention is what he craves and feeding into his ego is not going anywhere good. The best I feel I could do was offer my suggestions for self healing and be as transparent as possible for the sake of my readers. Thanks and as your name suggests.. LIFE IS GOOD!! 😄