Oh my what a challenge! Im afraid i cannot think of anything to help.... seems like your stuck between a rock and a hard place. I cant believe they dont let peanut butter in the schools! I mean i get it but how many kids go digging in others lunch boxes? Seems like they could provide a separate table for those kids with allergies so there was less risk. And to rush them to play when they need the nutrition to focus and learn.... ugh is right i would be furious! Kuddos to you for keeping your head! I would have made a butt of myself at the school.