Yes, @cryptofunk. It is hard to tell. Most of us who grew up like this have been trained to hide things well as a coping mechanism. You never really know, do you? There are so many people who have been devastated as children and as a result permanently trapped in their own shame. It's important to share what hurts with people you trust. Carrying this burden around alone will eat you up. Thank you. And your wife is a riot, by the way. We had such fun at steemfest. She saved me with a cheese toastie.