The proposal system has no ability to remove someone's stake.

Yes, but it is a method to express the desire of the masses. If one gets 51% of the witness votes (can choose top 30), hardfork is possible.

Conveniently the code to move around stakes already exists and has been tested. I'm sire it can be tweaked and executed again with less effort.

I personally do not think there is anything decentralized about removing someone's legitimate stake they have purchased

There are another way to earn stake. airdropped Hives and Rewarded, etc. I assume you include these.

I would argue there was nothing decentralized about removing ninja mined stake either. The code doesn't care how it ended up in the wallet. So this point of whether or not it is decentralized is irrelevant to the technical requirements.

Pandora's box was opened by removing stake from wallets. Okay technically they were not airdropped, but from a mathematical standpoint this is a chicken or egg first argument, glass half full or half empty.

The code was probably a conditional statement.

By healing, I mean making things right. We don't need more enemies. I think fixing the list for people who did meet qualifications is a good first. Then we have the decentralized vote. And after individual proposals. This will make some of the angry people forgive, but it won't heal everything. I'm sure as a community we can figure out how to become very strong again.