I've been around for a few years and even I get frustrated by some of the rules. I'm not a natural writer so my heart drops when I see I'm expected to write an X amount of words etc or jump through hoops to post. Some will explain things in a nice way but others will be a bit too blunt. I join in when I feel up to it. The majority of people here are lovely. I hope you stick around. You will definitely find your people if you do!