One of the most astounding things I am learning from the plandemic isn't about the malevolence of institutions and the psychopaths that rise to power in them, but the depths of subservience domesticated people can reach when they are inundated with psychological manipulation and cruel abuses.
I realize that there is pressure brought to bear on homeschooling people. The principal of my local middle school used to lobby me and finally laid out that keeping my kids out of school cost the district ~$10k each in federal funds (but he had the nerve to refuse to share any of that with me if I did agree to enroll my kids). When that failed, they sent child protective services after me. I am aware.
Your kids are worth fighting for. They're worth moving for, suing for, protesting for, writing letters, hiring lawyers, visiting principals unexpectedly to 'lobby' them, as necessary. Unschoolers are all about thinking outside the box, and achieving extraordinary results. It is what it is, and it's not going to get better on it's own, if it even can.
Never despair and always keep the hearts and minds of your beautiful children in focus as the purpose of everything you do, and if it can be achieved, you will achieve it.